Sunday, March 27, 2011
here are my thoughts on finding a life-partner
many of us feel the need to be love in an intimate relationship. this in a sense approaches the promises of heaven.
an obsession of it Can easily skew our priorities by a little too much. Sins of sexual nature tend to warp our perception of realities. it is normal for each of us to be attracted to more than one, but what decides a person is the one we should be really with?
why monogamy? we must realised that due to our finite nature, we cannot maintain 2 or more relationships without being able to maintain both. also, emotionally and mentally, we will be biased to one of the persons.
Although physical attraction is necessary in an intimate relationship, it is something that wears after some time. we are especially rendered down by this since we are so used to experiencing new stuff by the media and at an age where we are growing, our minds change very quickly. there has to be a spiritual connection some how.
How does it feel to be rejected? And how does it feel to break up? It is painful and sometimes it drives us to change ourselves and our sense of reality. Change may be good, but will it make you better? letting go is not the same squashing it into a corner of our hearts.
trust is an important thing in a relationship. you have to trust that he/she loves you even in the presence of others. trying to manipulate someone to do what you want only leaves the person bitter and like sand in your hands the harder you hold it the faster it leaks out.
Loving someone may very well mean that you have to be happy for someone so dear to your heart. and also willing to love someone you have no certainty over how the relationship will develop into.
Like the woman from the well we are thirsty. let God feel our need to be loved and to love.
signed out
here are my thoughts on finding a life-partner
many of us feel the need to be love in an intimate relationship. this in a sense approaches the promises of heaven.
an obsession of it Can easily skew our priorities by a little too much. Sins of sexual nature tend to warp our perception of realities. it is normal for each of us to be attracted to more than one, but what decides a person is the one we should be really with?
why monogamy? we must realised that due to our finite nature, we cannot maintain 2 or more relationships without being able to maintain both. also, emotionally and mentally, we will be biased to one of the persons.
Although physical attraction is necessary in an intimate relationship, it is something that wears after some time. we are especially rendered down by this since we are so used to experiencing new stuff by the media and at an age where we are growing, our minds change very quickly. there has to be a spiritual connection some how.
How does it feel to be rejected? And how does it feel to break up? It is painful and sometimes it drives us to change ourselves and our sense of reality. Change may be good, but will it make you better? letting go is not the same squashing it into a corner of our hearts.
trust is an important thing in a relationship. you have to trust that he/she loves you even in the presence of others. trying to manipulate someone to do what you want only leaves the person bitter and like sand in your hands the harder you hold it the faster it leaks out.
Loving someone may very well mean that you have to be happy for someone so dear to your heart. and also willing to love someone you have no certainty over how the relationship will develop into.
Like the woman from the well we are thirsty. let God feel our need to be loved and to love.
signed out
2 Comments:
guys! sign off with your name! :\
my bet is tangtang!
By 
T.SwEE,
March 30, 2011 4:55 PM